Young Person Code of Conduct

STANDARDS OF CONDUCT

The following is a Code of Conduct for use at our events

The Young Person Code of Conduct is a comprehensive framework designed to ensure the safety, dignity, and happiness of all participants during Church-related events and travel. It establishes clear expectations for behavior, requiring young people to be welcoming, respect personal boundaries, avoid aggressive or exclusionary conduct, and strictly abstain from harmful substances. Simultaneously, it guarantees fundamental rights, ensuring that every young person is listened to, protected from abuse, and treated with fairness. To maintain this environment, the code outlines an accountability process where group leaders manage misbehavior, with the potential for parental involvement as a final measure to preserve the safety of the community.

Why the Code Matters

A Guaranteed Sense of Safety

By adhering to safety rules and reporting concerns, young people ensure they are in a space where they are protected from harm and dangerous play.

A Culture of Inclusion

When participants choose to be welcoming and avoid exclusionary behavior, they benefit from a friendly community where everyone, including themselves is given a second chance and a fair start.

Empowerment and Voice

Following the code grants young people the right to be heard and believed, ensuring their feedback and concerns are taken seriously by leaders.

Personal Growth and Respect

By showing respect for the dignity and worth of others regardless of their background, young people develop the character and social skills necessary for leadership and life.

Mental and Spiritual Well-being

A supportive environment that is free from bullying and aggression allows young people to focus on being happy and having fun during their chosen activities.

Fairness and Equality

The code ensures that every young person has the right to participate equally in all activities and be treated with consistent fairness.

Code of Conduct for Children and Young People

Expectations

Children and young people are expected to:

  1. Welcome New Members: Be friendly and welcoming to new members.
  2. Report Concerns: Report inappropriate behavior or risky situations to a trusted adult.
  3. Show Respect:
    1. Respect the rights, dignity, and worth of all participants, regardless of age, gender, ability, social class, race, cultural background, religious beliefs, or sexual identity.
    2. Respect personal boundaries, including physical space.
    3. Respect property: Take care of the group’s equipment and respect the property of other members.
  4. Respect Leaders and Helpers: Show respect to group leaders and helpers and accept their decisions.
  5. Create a Fun and supportive Environment:
    1. Help make the group a fun place.
    2. Be supportive of other group members, offering comfort when needed;
    3. Give friends a second chance when they make mistakes.
    4. Include everyone in activities and avoid exclusionary behaviour.
  6. Ensure Safety:
    1. Actively contribute to keeping yourself and others safe
    2. Avoid dangerous play
    3. Do not leave the premises
    4. Do not run inside
    5. Do not be alone with another child or helper
  7. Avoid Aggression:
    1. Do not engage in violent or aggressive behaviour.
    2. Do not bully others, including online bullying.
    3. Avoid bad language and offensive references.
  8. Avoid Harmful Substances: Do not smoke, drink alcohol, or take non-prescribed or illegal drugs on Church premises or at Church-related events.
  9. Participate Actively: Participate actively and put effort into all activities.

 Rights

Children and young people have the right to:

  1. Safety and Happiness: Be safe and happy in their chosen activity.
  2. Respect and Fair Treatment: Be respected and treated fairly.
  3. Equal Participation: Participate equally with other children and young people.
  4. Protection from Abuse: Be protected from abuse by other members or outside sources.
  5. Seek Help: Ask for help when needed.
  6. Be Heard and Believed: Be listened to and have their concerns believed.
  7. Appropriate Action: Have concerns taken seriously and acted upon appropriately.
  8. Be referred to professional help if needed.
  9. Feedback: Provide feedback about activities and their experiences.

Addressing Misbehavior

Handling Minor Misdemeanors and General Misbehavior:

  • The group leader will address minor misdemeanours and general misbehaviour.
  • If a child violates the Code of Conduct, we may – as a last resort – need to call a parent or an adult designated by the parent to collect the child from the activity.
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CLEAR GUIDANCE FOR ALL

Have Questions About Our Standards?

Understanding the Code of Conduct is the first step toward a safer community. Whether you are a parent, a young person, or a volunteer, we are here to provide clarity on our expectations and how we handle concerns.

General enquiries to
youth@rcaos.org.uk / 0203 051 5889
Diocesan Offices
150 St George’s Road London SE1 6HX

Director of Youth
Fr Dermott O’Gorman

dermottogorman@rcaos.org.uk / 0203 051 5889

Event Coordinator
David Tregidgo

davidtregidgo@rcaos.org.uk / 0203 051 5889

Mission Team and Retreat Coordinator
Lucy Treloar

lucytreloar@rcaos.org.uk / 0203 051 5889
Archbishop’s House

020 7928 2495

Chancery

 020 7928 5592

Bowen House

020 7960 2500